Scammer girls
October 25th, 2007Scammer girls stay one of the most difficult and puzzling problems for dating agencies. Who are they? So difficult to comprehend them and to ensnare them.
In the first place I want to tell shortly a unhappy story of my best friend and Russian woman. My friend connected with a nice Russian girl, he was so pleased! that Russian was so clever and well educated in letters, so perfect that he felt that she is that woman with whom they can build real solid family by international marriage and that particular this girl can become his Russian bride. They were in correspondence with each other for several months, he was so candid in his letters and she replied him with love and gentle words.
The first puzzling things I felt after looking at her pictures. This girl from Russia sent to my friend pictures near so bad places, so poor and ramshackle houses, even muddy street toilets. Why? She wrote that she lives in this house, without electricity, without anything, that they have so hard situation in her family.
Of course my friend was in shock, he wanted to help his bride from Russia right from the heart!
By the way, once she came to the web cam to the dating agency with last model of mobile phone, sunglasses Gucci and dressed very well. He couldn't assume that he could meet bad girl, that she could be a cheat and can cheat!
I will not describe the whole situation, because I'm convinced that my friend wouldn't be glad to read something like this. Just I want to say that one day this woman from Russia sent him the letter, that she wants to be with him, that she loves him so much and ready to come. She said that in the travel office she received all necessary information, etc. And she asked him to send her money (more then 10000$). When my kind friend told to his Russian bride, that his friend will come to her house and will help with money and help her settle all the matters, she changed immediately… I checked this girl from Russia and she had totally different life from the life she described in messages and by phone. It is splendid that we've unmasked in time that she is a deceiver.
I can write even more, but what I wanted to say - please! Be careful! Working in international dating agency I saw a lot of such kind of situations. Here everything depends on you. Listen to my advice and come at first step to your Russian girl and say that you want to prepare everything in cooperation with her, if your woman from Russia is serious, she will be really happy to to be with you. And anyway you will see her reaction. Or you can cooperate with the international dating agency and they will assist you with everything! Just be wary! International marriage isn't simple!